Actively Avoiding Problems By Observing People

The strategy of actively avoiding problems includes observing people. What behaviors do you see? In a park, perhaps the people are carefree and enjoying the scenery as they walk around. People relaxing and enjoying time with family, friends, and nature can send you a message. What if you observe people that do not look at ease and stress-free?

I was once observing a group of youth walking through a city. I was parked, so I had a good view of their behavior. They appeared to be teenagers. They were doing what teenagers do when they get together. It looked like they were enjoying conversation and time together.

Unexpectedly, the youth abruptly stopped. They were all looking intently at something down the street in front of them. I watched them cautiously take a few more steps forward and again stop. Something was causing alarm. One of the kids turned and ran in the opposite direction of the perceived menace. Immediately, all the other teenagers followed the exiting leader. Their exit behavior was a clear sign to me that there was a possible problem ahead.

I decided not to explore around the building, which was stopping me from seeing what they observed. I do not know what startled the youth. However, based on the teenagers' reactions, I decided not to explore. They did not look like they needed my help, so I left the area.

Active engagement in observing your surroundings can help you stay safe. In a low-profile manner, observe people and behaviors. When behaviors do not seem to fit the environment, choose to transition away from the possible problem.

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